Premeeting Checklist Author: Raven Shadowborne © April 28, 1999 |
Below you will find a check
list of items that should be satisfied before a meeting is scheduled with
someone you've met online. This list is not meant to be all encompassing
but is meant to be used as a guideline for following safety precautions
before meeting someone from online. Please feel free to print this page
out if you want to. Further, this list is meant to be personalized so
that it better fits your specific needs and expectations before a meeting
a takes place. All questions should be answered as they apply to you and
your prospective partner.
Real name: Address: Phone number: Place of Employment: Work Number: Car make, model, year and color: Currently involved with someone else: Is a safe call decided on: Has a safeword been issued: Will play be expected: What kinds of play are you willing to participate in: Have safe sex practices been discussed: Will condoms be used: Has a play list been exchanged: Has a scene negotiation form been exchanged: How do they view submission/domination: How do they view the opposite gender Do they prefer a submissive, slave or bottom Do they prefer a dominant or a top Will pain play be expected what is expected of the sub/dom Has health been discussed How much experience does the person have: What is the person's favorite color: Are they open about their real lives and experiences: Do they willingly provide answers to questions Do they support any efforts to seek more information Do they want a relationship or just a play partner: Have they had prior doms or subs: How do they handle punishment: What do they consider to be abusive: What do they consider to be consent: What ways are they providing for their own safety and yours:
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