As a
discussion room slaves have permission to add to the discussion freely
unless otherwise ordered by their Owner as long as it is respectful.(If
a slave is in service, she must have permission of the Domniant he/she
is serving before adding to the discussion)
Rules specific to a slave within LnR.
Addressing The Free:
Since
basic gorean formalities are now being used in LnR, slaves will address
Free Men as "Master" or "Jarl" and all Free Women
as "Mistress" or "Lady". Check the person's whois
for gender, if the words Jarl or Lady appear in the whois, this often
indicates that this is the title that person wishes a slave to use
when addressing them. If you are unsure of the gender, use Master
until told otherwise. LnR is not "on Gor" and some who frequent
LnR are not gorean. Beacuse of this the honorifics Sir and Ma'am are
also acceptable in LnR, provided they are used respectfully. Those
who are gorean trained, should use the gorean honorifics.
Attitude and Behavior:
All slaves
are required to be polite, respsectful, obedient and pleasing at all
times. They are expected to behave in a pleasing manner. If you have
a problem with someone in channel, message any channel op for assistance.
If you are having a personal disagreement with another in the channel,
please take it into a pm window. LnR is considered a public forum,
and as such, personal arguments will not be allowed. If there is more
than one person involved, create a private channel and take the argument
in there. Yelling from a slave, will not be tolerated. Any slave who
yells will be warned to stop doing so and if they continue they will
be kick/banned from channel at the ops disretion. All submissive's
are required to keep cursing to a minimum. Cursing is considered bad
manners, and a slave should exhibit good manners at all times. This
includes yelling through capital letters. Such behaviors will get
the slave warned, reprimanded, possibly punished, kicked from channel
or even banned (depending on situation, ops discretion, restrictions
on the slave.)
Begging:
Slaves
need not beg to enter LnR. However, they must beg all else. For example
a slave must beg to go afk (away from keyboard), brb (be right back),
to return from afk or brb, or to leave the channel. A girl can beg
three times, each one two minutes apart. After the third request,
if a Free person still has not responded, the slave can consider the
request granted. If a r/l situation arises that requires your immediate
attention, a slave should type 911 in the channel and just go ahead
and leave. The slave can always explain when they return. A slave
is required to change their nick when they go afk or brb (for example:
raven{Az}-afk shows that raven{Az} is afk.). The slave should not
change their nick back to normal, until after they receive permission
to return. Further, a slave who is in the channel, but has been idle
for more than 30 minutes, will be kicked. The slave is free to return
when they get back to their computers. Sitting in the channel idle
without stating that you are going AFK or involved in r/l stuff, is
not allowed.
Chores:
If there are no Free who need service, and there is no discussion
taking place that the slave wishes to participate in, then a slave
should keep themselves busy doing chores around the keep. This can
be anything from washing dishes, to sweeping the floors, to preparing
food for cooking. Doing chores is another way for a slave to show
their desire to please and their submissivenes while on IRC.
Consent
and Participation (punishment is in a section by itself)
All slaves
will remember that it is the dominants within the room who are in
charge. Collared slaves, and slaves who have protectors, can also
message an op for assistance if their owner or protector is not available
and another dominant is attempting to force them to do something they
can not do (goes against your restrictions or are not trained for).
If that dominant refuses to obey the restrictions or take no for an
answer the collared slave can message an op for assistance.(Channel
ops will NOT protect a collared girl from her owner, or her protector.)
Since LnR is now using the gorean formalities and rituals, it is important
that slaves keep in mind that an un-owned slave, on gor, is thus available
to be used by any free person in any manner. However, as LnR is basing
itself more realistically than is found in the gor books (and other
channels), consent does play a role. Un-owned slaves, can expect (In
LnR anyway) to be protected by the channel ops from being forced to
provide sexual service, a bdsm scene, or force collared against their
wishes within LnR. If an un-owned slave finds themselves in one of
those situations, (force collar, dominant demanding cyber sex or bdsm
play) the slave can message an op for assistance. This does not mean
that you can't participate if you really want to. If you wish to participate
in the scene, force collar or sexual service then by all means you
are free to do so.
Discussions
and Private Conversations:
Conversation
and discussions are encouraged in LnR, be they about bdsm, gor, m/s
relationships, or just friends discussing recent events in their lives.
Many of the regulars of the channel have known each other for quite
some time and will talk about such things as jobs, children, or whatever.
Such discussions are allowed. If you wish a conversation to remain
private, then take it into a pm window.
In most cases, if a topic of discussion is raised in the channel by
a Free Person, it is best if a slave asks permission to comment or
to speak freely, if they wish to speak on that topic.
New To
M/s, BDSM, and/or Gor:
Any
submissive who is new to D/s and/or IRC can message an op or another
submissive for assistance. Most of us will be happy to help out if
we can. It is a good idea to add -obs to your nick. This way everyone
in channel will know you are new, and not expect you to behave within
the gorean formalities until you have learned more. The channel operators,
first girl (raven{Az}), second girl (ayli{Kil}, and other slaves will
all be more than willing to answer questions and help a new person
learn. Please seek out a channel op, raven or ayli for assistance
if they are there.
Private
Messaging Other Channel Members:
It is a good idea to ask permission before private messaging other
people in the channel. It is required that a slave ask before messaging
a dominant. However, it is not required to do so before messaging
a slave, but it is encouraged that you ask first simply to be polite.
Anyone
who has ops ( @ ) can be messaged at any time without prior permission.
This does not mean they can be trolled. If you troll an op you will
be kicked.
Punishment:
Collared/protected
girls: Girls who are collared to LnR can expect to be reprimanded
and/or punished by any channel op unless Master AAhhzz has placed
a specific punishment restriction upon you for this. Girls who are
collared to other channels, have a protector in thier whois, or who
have a specific Master/Mistress can be verbally reprimanded in LnR.
On Gor, a collared girl can be punished by any Free Person. LnR bases
itself more realisticaly however. So, should a collared/protected
girl's behavior warrant a corporal punishment, whether or not it is
given in LnR will depend on a few things. If the girl is owned/protected/restricted
from punishment by all except her owner, then most likely she will
receive a verbal reprimand and her owner/protector will be informed
of her behavior, thus leaving any corporal punishment to the owner/protector.
(At the ops discretion) If the girl is not restricted, it will be
at the ops discretion whether or not punishment is given. The same
goes for girls who have a protector.
Un-owned girls
work a bit differently. The consent of the girl is requred, as it
would be in real life. Consent need not be verbal. Consent is considered
granted if the slave simply stays in the channel after being told
their behavior has earned them a corporal punishment (such as a whipping)
and/or if he girl participates in the punishment scene by typing an
agreeable response such as "Kneels to the whip". An un-owned
girl can appeal to a channel op for intervention if she believes that
a punishment is not truly warranted. If the channel op believes the
punishment to be warranted, they will inform the slave of this. Then
the slave has two options, accept the punishment they earned or leave
the channel and accept the reprecussions of their leaving.
If a channel
operator believes the punishment was warrented, and the slave leaves
the channel rather than accept the punishment they earned, then an
owned or protected slave can expect that their owner/protector will
be notified and uncollared girls can expect to be banned from channel
(at the ops discretion).
Service
& #LnR-Pens:
Slaves
will be required to offer service in LnR. If a slave offers and the
Free Person does not respond, the slave can restate the offer (or
some other action such as *peeks up at Master soandos") 3 times,
each 2 minutes apart. If no answer is given after the third offer,
the slave can (and should) back away quietly "Seeing that Master
so and so is busy". Specific types of service will depend on
the restrictions placed on the slave, the slave's training level,
and the comfort level of the slave. Serving such things as beverages
or food, dancing, holding conversations with a Free Person and such,
are standard service and all slaves with even a small amount of training,
should be able to provide those types of services. However, things
such as cyber sex, cyber scenes, massages and such, usualy depend
upon the restrictions and training level of the girl. It is a slave's
responsibility to inform a Free Person of their restrictions if the
free asks for something they are not allowed to serve. Should the
Free insist upon that service, after being informed the slave is restricted,
the slave should msg a channel op for assistance. To learn more about
serving on IRC see IRC Serves. Pages which
give information on the gorean serves and such are in the process
of being placed on the site. Slaves should also be in the channel
#LnR-Pens while in LnR, unless they have been told by their owner
that they can not co-channel. The pens are where the slaves co-ordinate
serving, help each other out, and where training is given. The channel
bot for the pens is "blackrose{LnR}. When in service, a slaves
attention should be focused on the person they are serving. This means
the slave should not respond to other slaves, people entering or leavng
the channel or any other statement or action made by anyone other
than the person they are serving. Once the serve itself is complete,
if the slave is asked to stay with that free person, the slave can
request permission to "greet and speak freely". If permission
is granted, then the slave can speak to others. If it is not granted,
then the slave can not speak or respond to anyone but the Free person
they are serving. Sitting on a lap, whispering in a pm and any other
action that puts a slave with one specific Free person, counts as
serving. If you are sitting with a free person and they go afk without
dismissing you, once they are gone for 10 minutes you can consider
yourself released from their service and return to your owner's furs
or the serving furs.
Slave
Clothing:
Uncollared slaves, in many gorean rooms, are considered to be naked.
In LnR, the slave can describe themselves as naked, or as wearing
a ta-teera if they prefer to not be naked. Owned slaves will be in
whatever clothing their owner or protector has given them. If the
owner or protector has given them no clothing, then the slave will
be naked.
Slave
Heat and Red-Silk Serves:
Slave heat is often used to describe the physical arousal of a slave,
or it is used as another term for the female genitalia. When this
is used, by a slave, it usualy means they are both available and wanting
sexual use. If you are restricted from sexual use by your owner, do
NOT use "slave heat" in your serves. If you are not restricted,
but do not wish to participate in sexual use, leaving "slave
heat' out of your serves can often be a subtle way of telling the
Free that you are unwilling for sexual use.
Slave
Speech:
A slave
is allowed to speak in first person in LnR as this is how slaves tend
to speak most often in r/l. However, if a slave is ordered to "speak
as a slave" then the slave will use third person speech until
granted permission to stop speaking that way. If a slave is in trouble,
begging mercy, being verbally reprimanded or receiving a corporal
punishment, third person speech is required.
Please
remember that a slave's collar carries with it the honor and reputation
of their owner, whether that owner be a single person, a couple, or
a channel. A slave's behavior reflects upon their owner as well as
themselves.