- small carafe of Golden Nectar (freshly obtained)
- wine glass
- collar and lock in a decorative box
- sheep skin rug (small)
- cuffs for boy john to wear
- leash for boy john to present
Setting: A chair and small
table are set in a stage area. A sheep skin is placed about 2ft in front
of the chair. The small table will hold all of the materials (less what
boy john has). Attendees will be seated or standing around the stage.
The only lighting will be candles. Music of choice playing in the back
Procession: Ms Siren, seated in the chair, notifies
an assistant that the ceremony is to begin. The assistant goes to the
dungeon and tells boy john to join Ms Siren. Boy john (completely nude,
no adornments) enters the stage area and kneels before her on a sheep
skin rug (placing his leash in front of him).
To Love, Honor, and Obey:
MS. SIREN: Love, honor and obey used to be a common and significant
vow in marriage ceremonies. Almost everyone has no issue with love and
honor, the problem comes with the word obey. Each person of the union
had a high code of behavior, ethics and morals to follow and the act of
obeying supported the individual's success in meeting her/his own code.
As society changed the code, the desire to obey diminished to the point
that it is deemed contemptible. I feel to love, honor and obey is very
appropriate for the D/s relationship. But instead of the expected and
obvious act of the submissive obeying the dominant, I see it as each obeying
her/his calling of dominance or submission. I see it as a higher calling
of behavior, ethics and morals; the integrity of domination for me and
the integrity of submission for boy john. Thus, the choice of our vows.
MS. SIREN: (standing) Boy john, do you offer me your love?
BOY JOHN: Yes, Ms Siren...
MS. SIREN: Then drink of my golden nectar to express this love.
(Ms. Siren pours a small amount in the wine glass, boy john sips)
MS. SIREN: Boy john, do you honor me?
BOY JOHN: Yes Ms Siren...
MS. SIREN: Then worship my feet to express this honor.
(Boy john bends to kiss each foot 4 times and sits back up)
MS. SIREN: Boy john, will you obey your submission to me?
BOY JOHN: Yes Ms Siren...
MS. SIREN: Then accept this lash as an expression of obedience.
(Ms. Siren moves to boy john and strikes his back with a few heavy
MS. SIREN: Boy john, do you offer me a symbol of your commitment?
BOY JOHN: Yes Ms Siren, I offer this leash....
(Ms. Siren accepts the leash and then removes the collar from the
MS. SIREN: This collar is a symbol of my love for you, a reminder that
I honor and respect you, and a commitment to obey the responsibilities
of being the dominant force in your life. It is a visible symbol of
our commitment in a D/s relationship.
(Ms. Siren locks the collar on boy john's neck, attaches the leash
and kisses him. Still kneeling, she has him turn so they are both facing
the audience. Ms. Siren thanks the attendees for supporting their celebration.)
End of ceremony.
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