To Me Dominance Means Author: Justin Medlin © 2001 |
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I have
found, that the people that I consider to be the best dominants, the ones
that I respect the most are all, very caring, giving and often times humble
people. No need for grandstanding, chest beating, or trumpet blowing.
Being a
dominant and owning someone is the largest responsibility that I know
of. It certainly requires me to continue to learn and grow, to push myself,
before I can lead her. The often mentioned issue of safety is a big one,
but it's one that exists well outside of the dungeon and bedroom. I must
think of how she will be cared for, mentally, physically, spiritually,
emotionally, including to the point of setting up the frame work for her
care should I die before she does. I expect myself to travel all those
roads as far ahead of her as I can before I instruct her in how to walk
them. Its not about forcing my will on someone else, having that person come to me and want to submit to it is only a manifestation of it. Dominance to me, is about Service. Service to yourself, your submissive or slave and to your community at large, through making things better for each and every one of those things through the force of your will, without ever having to raise your voice, or your hand. Dominance is about providing the focus so that others might meet your goals and theirs. Justin Medlin Now that I have your attention feel free to email me. I may or may not respond to the emails, but I promise to read all of them. Copyright
Justin Medlin © September 2001
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